Sometimes our ranch seems like it has a revolving door. I learned early on not to get too attached to the horses; everything has a price tag and the goal of our business IS to sell horses (at a profit).
Out With the Old
In 2020-2022 , we sold 7-9 horses each year (26 total). Not just any 26 horses; not weanlings, but horses we’ve ridden and had around for years. And now 2023 is starting off with a bang- having 7 head already consigned to auctions in February and March.
This is how the business works and selling a horse for a satisfying price tag is a measure of success, but it doesn’t mean that its easy on the heart strings.
We’re not horse traders, but trainers. We add value to a horse during his time here. They leave here with a better disposition, knowledge, training, practice, and tons more hours under the saddle, all resulting in a better broke horse that’s ready for the next owners.
Kids Can’t Stay Forever Either
I find it similar to the example of a third grade teacher. Kids (and horses) arrive and you try to teach them all you can in a set amount of time. At the end of the school year, you’re sad to see some go, but you are confident you’ve taught them to the best of your abilities (and theirs). A horse and a child can’t stay in your classroom forever. There comes a time that you need to let go.
It’s All Part of The Process
We take pride in the training, but it’s sometimes challenging not to bask in the rewards.
This, I parallel to the idea of myself as a future mother-in-law. I’m investing all of these years of nurturing, teaching, and training our boys. It isn’t a lost cause, but my efforts will really be enjoyed by someone else: their future wives and families. I take great pride in that and strive everyday to make them the best men they can be, despite knowing that as soon as they’re close to perfection, another woman will come along and reap the benefits.
Our job as parents and trainers is to prepare “them” for the future and whatever comes their way. Who knows what they’ll see or experience but you hope the knowledge you’ve passed on to them will carry them through whatever comes at them- Anything from not getting that promotion, to a Walmart sack blowing in the wind; a bad breakup, to being tied onto a cow double their weight.
We Do it, But it Isn’t Always Easy
Tears were shed over some of these horse transactions. I can’t disclose who did the shedding. Emotions run high as a sale is made, whether in an auction ring or in our driveway. And I can’t deny that I’ll be crying happy tears during the boys’ milestones: graduation, wedding, etc.
Owning a horse and raising kids are emotional experiences no matter what the time frame. There are days of rides where you’d like to kill them and others that end with unsaddling and a “thank you” whispered in the horse’s ear. Similar thoughts are associated with parenthood: the good and the bad. Thank goodness for unconditional love or child auctions might become popular!
In With the New
I continue to update our horse inventory. Who knows what the rest of this year will bring? Or next? My plan is to love and use the horses we have here- at each given moment.
I’m planning a similar approach to our boys. I’m going to cherish the time they’re still at home.
I can’t wait to share our experiences in the up-coming year. I plan to keep promoting so the revolving door doesn’t jam up.
Another goal is to not take any horse ride or parenting memory for granted. No two horses are alike and these years and memories are priceless.
I take consolation in the fact that Casey can always make me a new one-A new horse that is, the boy production line has been shut down, LOL.
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I’ve always had such a soft spot for horses – I don’t think I could ever let it go if I had one! It sounds like you add so much value to them; the new owners will be lucky to have them!
I enjoyed your post! My daughter owned a couple of horses, as a teen, and enjoyed everything from mucking out their stalls to showing them around the country to training them. Watching her work with horses as she figured out their special gifts gave depth to the scripture that says “train up a child in the way he should go…” I realized, from my daughter’s training sessions that we don’t force a child to be something he isn’t. We observe our child and help him to become the person he is created to be.
I can imagine it could be difficult when you have attachments to the horses.. I would struggle, but as you say business is always changing!
I applaud you! I would become overly attached to each one of those horses. Thank you for giving them so much love!
Love the dress! It is hard to let go sometimes!
I love the comparison you make to a teacher. You are so right! Thank you for sharing. I can tell you must do an amazing job with these horses!
You definitely have to cherish every moment. Time takes our boys away much too quickly.
I get so attached to my animals, I can only imagine how hard it would be to let them go. Gotta say, I have a soft spot for Palomino’s!
Beautiful horses. Nice analogy with the kiddos!
My oldest son is getting married soon, so I can identify with your comments about raising your kids to be the best for their future families!
We had 2 horses when my daughters were young; it is indeed difficult to pass them along to a new family.
That would be really hard to spend so much time with an animal and then have to say farewell. I’d be in tears too!
I would be heartbroken to do this! You are very strong for going through this, and those horses are lucky to have you!
What a touching article!
Would never think about emotional side of trainer work.
I thought you just do your job and you are done! It’s nice to see that the horseradish not only in your mind but hearts too.
Thank you for sharing:)
I know it may take a lot of work and dedication to keep your ranch running but boy, it must be nice for your kids to grow up there. I am jealous!
It must be difficult letting go. They become a big part of your life.
Letting go is hard sometimes. They become so much like family!
Beautiful ranch and horses! Nice job!
I would definitely have attachment issues! LOL… they would keep coming in… but none would be going out!
Great info! My son’s girlfriend owns a horse farm and I realize how little I know about horses!
I’ve always had such a soft spot for horses – I don’t think I could ever let it go if I had one! It sounds like you add so much value to them; the new owners will be lucky to have them!
I enjoyed your post! My daughter owned a couple of horses, as a teen, and enjoyed everything from mucking out their stalls to showing them around the country to training them. Watching her work with horses as she figured out their special gifts gave depth to the scripture that says “train up a child in the way he should go…” I realized, from my daughter’s training sessions that we don’t force a child to be something he isn’t. We observe our child and help him to become the person he is created to be.